Whether you've been married for 50 years or are just starting a new relationship, making the most of your dating life can be a lot of work. While they say the best things in life are free, as everyone who's been in a relationship knows, keeping your wallet (and credit cards) close at hand is usually a critical component of long-term success.
As it turns out, dating can be pretty expensive.
The average American man spends around $70 per date, with the average dating cost of a new relationship around $700. And that's just the average - the annual costs can easily run into the thousands of dollars, or even tens of thousands, which helps explain why two-thirds of Americans report feeling stressed about the financial costs of dating.
Given this challenge, it’s worth asking: how do I make the most of my budget?
It probably comes as no surprise to most men that 70% of women said they were more likely to date someone with signs of wealth. That said, not all status symbols are created equal. Despite what the advertising industry might tell you, luxury fashion and expensive cars are not that important. While they probably also don’t hurt, most women report being much more impressed by experiences that their partners put thought and effort into.
While that new Tudor watch might be calling your name, it's worth considering how a big purchase might be getting in the way of your ability to create memorable experiences with your partner. If a successful long-term relationship is your priority, it might be worth considering finding a more affordable watch and putting that money towards a romantic trip to Hawaii or the Caribbean.
Saving money is a great reason to choose a Vaer watch for your next date, but it's FAR from the only reason. In honor of Valentine's Day, and the thousands of our community members in the midst of planning their biggest date of the year, we thought we'd put together our list of reasons why a Vaer is the perfect date watch.
14 Reasons Why Vaer is the Perfect Date Watch
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Keeps You on Time
Punctuality makes a great first impression. With Vaer’s reliable movement and clear dials, you’ll always be right on time, showing respect for your date’s schedule.
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Stops You From Looking at Your Phone
Pulling out your phone to check the time can look rude or distracting. A quick glance at your Vaer keeps you in the moment without breaking eye contact.
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Showcases Your Style
Wearing a watch is a subtle yet powerful way to showcase your personal style. Whether you’re going for a rugged, refined, or casual aesthetic, Vaer has a design that fit (with multiple straps to show variety)
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Smartwatches Are Ugly & Distracting
A black square screen strapped to your wrist may be functional, but it doesn't have the classic appeal of a well-designed analog timepiece. A Vaer watch elevates your look effortlessly.
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Not Overtly Flashy—People Don’t Like Fake Rolexes
Overly gaudy designs, or fake luxury watches can doom a date before it’s even started. Vaer offers a refined, understated look— impressive without being showy.
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Vaer Watches Look and Feel Premium
If your watch has a dozen scratches on the glass, it might be time for a new look. Vaer watches offer premium materials like sapphire crystal and 316L stainless steel at an accessible price, giving you a high-end look without breaking the bank.
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Vaer Watches Look Good on All Wrist Sizes
If you’re a man with smaller wrists, finding a watch that suits your wrists can be tough. As with clothing, wearing a clearly oversized fit is not a great look. Fortunately, Vaer watches come in various sizes, including 36mm and 38mm sizes designed for smaller wrists.
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Versatile for Any Date Setting
From a black-tie dinner to a beachside walk or an outdoor adventure, Vaer watches are built to handle any scenario. Their durability and water resistance ensure you’re covered, regardless of the activity.
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A Great Conversation Starter
While many of our designs are subtle and timeless, they’re definitely eye-catching. Whether is the unusual vintage sizing of our 36mm designs, our more colorful dials or an unexpected strap combination, if you wear a Vaer watch on a date, chances are you’ll probably find a chance to talk about it - allowing you to share some of the adventures you’ve been on with the watch.
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Stands Out More Than an Apple Watch or Fitness Bracelet
Most people wear the same tech wearables. A Vaer watch differentiates you, subtly suggesting that you value tradition, craftsmanship, and timeless style.
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Shows You Have Good Taste in Jewelry
A well-chosen watch is a sign of refined taste—something that might carry over to your ability to choose other important accessories, like an engagement ring down the line.
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Communicates Your Priorities
Your watch says something about you and where you’ve been. Whether you prefer a minimalist field watch or a rugged dive model, Vaer lets you express your personality and what you value, whether that’s US assembly, solar power, or ocean use.
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Your Date Might Want to Try It On
Watches have a tactile appeal, and there’s something charming about letting your date try it on. The comfortable fit and unique design of a Vaer can spark a moment of shared interest and, possibly, a customer referral :)
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Swap Out the Bands for a Fresh Look on Future Dates
Vaer’s quick-change strap system allows you to mix up your style effortlessly. Rotate between leather, nylon, or steel to subtly refresh your watch’s look for each date.
Conclusion
Dating isn’t about showing off—it’s about making a genuine connection. And while no watch in the world can guarantee chemistry, the right one can help set the tone. It’s a small but meaningful detail that speaks to who you are, subtly signaling that you value punctuality, style, and craftsmanship.
A good watch isn’t just about telling time; it’s about telling a story—one of preparation, self-respect, and an appreciation for the finer things that don’t need to scream for attention. Vaer watches strike that perfect balance: refined but never flashy, high-quality yet accessible, versatile enough for any setting, and built to last a lifetime.
Perhaps most importantly, Vaer delivers all of this without blowing up your dating budget. Great relationships aren’t built on luxury goods or status symbols—they’re built on shared experiences, the kind that become the foundation of lasting memories.
And when it comes down to it, every dollar spent wisely on a quality timepiece is another dollar that can go toward a great meal, an unforgettable trip, or even something more permanent down the road. The fact that your Vaer watch will still be on your wrist years from now as a reminder of the moments you’ve lived and the memories you’ve made? That’s just a bonus.
